One of the secrets of life is that “No One Owns You Anything.” To get what you want, you have to let go what you have. Good news, marriage is not exempted from this golden rule. Therefore, a sample is the function of example. The Law of example states that you cannot make others do what you cannot do for yourself.
EXPECTATION BEFORE INITIATION WILL BREED UNLIMITED FRUSTRATION
Husbands don’t except respect before you show love, and wives don’t except love before you show respect.
Waiting is very good, but in marriage, it will lead to wasting. What you want is the function of what you will give.
Good and enviable marriage is possible if you are proactive.
“After these things, the Lord appointed seventy others also, and sent them two by two before His face into every city and place where He Himself was about to go (Sample).” Luke 10:1 NKJV
In other to get what you want in marriage, you have to initiate it by giving what your spouse needs. Remember whoever takes the lead, is the leader. So, take the lead, initiate the change.
Remember, keep loving your own spouse.