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My Note To The Married And Those That Are Desiring Marriage

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Who you are is in your character and every good character must be build on the platform of experience and knowledge acquisition. In the area of marriage Life During Courtship Is the Preliminary Stage Of Marriage While Life After Marriage Ceremony Is The Real Marriage. Below are the 26 Secrets to know if you are about to sign up for or you are already in marriage.

1. Knowing/Learning: Introduction Of The Real Self And Responsibility of Each Party To Change
2. Growing And Bonding: Despite The Flaws, Both Parties Still Love And Ready To Adjust To New ways Of Life
3. Living/Result: Enjoyment And Real Love Display Having Learned New Things And Growing At The Same Time

Ten Things To Expect In First STAGE OF MARRIAGE
1. Is The Stage At Which You Will See What You Don’t Know That You Once Think You Know
2. Is The Stage At Which You Will Know The Real Person You Marry
3. Is The Stage At Which You Will Know If You Are A Baby Or Adult
4. Is The Stage At Which You Don’t Have Anybody To Run To Except The Person That Wrong You
5. Is The Stage At Which You Will Make A Decision To Either Make It Worst Or Make It Work
6. Is The Stage At Which You Either Forgive Or You Try Another Marriage That Will Never Work
7. Is The Stage At Which You Will Wish To Still Remain Single, But Is Too Late
8. Is The Stage At Which All Of Your Assumption Will Either Be Manifestation Or Frustration
9. Is The Stage At Which You Will Be Thinking What Makes You Choose Your Spouse Among Others
10. Is The Stage At Which You Either Follow Your Heart And Lose Your Marriage Or You Follow God’s Instructions And Keep Your Marriage

1. Ladies Start What They Can’t Finish, It Is Men Responsibility To Love Them Regardless Of Their Flaws
2. Improper And Lack Of Maximizing Singleness Will Largely Affect Marriage Negatively
3. It Is Better To Wait For God To Choose For You Than You Rush And Choose For Yourself Because You Will Automatically Rush Out
4. Every Marriage Must Be Tend And Keep, If You Don’t It Will Grow Thorns And Thistles For You
5. Marriage Is The Only Institution That You Will Receive Certificate On The Day Of Admission
6. You Either Make Your Marriage Work Or It Will Make Your Life Go Worst
7. It Is Better To Be Single And Learn Than To Be Married And Regret.
8. You Can’t Rethink After Your Oath And Signature
9. Husband As The Head And The Leader, Wife As The Neck And Follower
10. Everything That Start Must Finish With Both Parties, Introduction Of Third Party Is Forbidden

1. Marriage Is Your Launching Pad To The World Of Answered Prayer
2. Marriage Is The Platform In Life To Produce 10,000 Against Your Normal 1000
3. Marriage Is One Of Devil’s Strategies To Make People To Get Low Or No Result

To Your Success In This Month Of Exploit.

…Be Inspired, Help Others And Live Abundance Life

Rotimi Adedokun

The Secret Man

22 Secrets Every Single Lady Must Know Before You Accept His Proposal

What Is Relationship?
Relationship Is An Adventure For The Discovery Of Marriage. That is, The Pathway To A Successful Marriage.

1. If The Man Is Not Hungry To Love You In Relationship, His Real Love Will Be Hidden In Marriage
2. If The Man Is Not Ready (To Do Anything For You) In Relationship, Marriage Will Not Be Colorful
3. If The Man Is Not Curious To Love You And Know You More In Relationship, Marriage Will Not Be Fun
4. If The Man Is Not Ready To Search For The Secret Things Of Your Heart In Relationship, Marriage Cannot Be Spices
5. If The Man Is Not Expecting Your Present All The Time In Relationship, Marriage Will Not Be Bubbling
6. If The Man Is Not Making The Relationship Work, Marriage Will Not Last
7. If The Man Is Not Powering The Relationship, Marriage Will Be Tedious
8. If The Man Is Not Spiritually Sound, Marriage Will Be Vulnerable For Attack
9. If The Man Is Not Ready To Lead From Behind Marriage Will be Turbulent
10. If The Man Did Not Depart From His Family During Relationship, Marriage Will Be In Chaos


1. Am I The One Telling Him What To Do For Me? If You Help Him To See What He Should Do, You Will Do It Throughout Your Marriage
2. Am I The One In Charge Or He Is In Charge? Don’t Take The Lead, It Can be Frustrating Let Him Lead You
3. Who Did He Love Most God Or Me? Don’t Say Yes Because He Loves You, Say Yes Because He Loves God. If He Love God He Can Never Stop Loving You.
4. Is He Giving Gifts Because He Knows The Mystery Of Giving Or He Needs Something In Return? Don’t Get Gifts From Him Because He Want To Marriage You, Let Him Get You Gifts Because He Is Doing For God
5. Did I Really Love Him? If You Don’t Love Him You Can Submit To Him And That Is Total Anti-Covenant
6. How Did I Get Into This Relationship? Is This For Meeting Standard With Your Peers Or God Brought Our Path Together
7. Can This Relationship Lead To Marriage? Don’t Say Yes To Relationship That Can’t Leads To Marriage. It’s A Waste Of Time, Energy And Resources.

What Is Marriage?
Marriage Is The Platform For Two Opposite Sex To Displace Their Real Person In Other To Live Forever.


1. What Can You Do To Make Our Marriage Work?
2. What Will You Do If I Do What You Seriously Detest?
3. Why Do You Want To Marry Me?
4. What Can I Do To Stop You From Loving Me?
5. What Are The Things You Are Yet To Tell Me About Your Past?

…be inspired, live abundant life, help others.

The Secret Man

Rotimi Adedokun