Category Archives: Self Development

Morning Dose 20150706… ASK TOUGH QUESTIONS

Ask Tough Questions

Questions are one of the vital forces in the school of success. Nothing can stop that man who has an answer to questions and ask tough questions. Questions are the provoker of answers and solution to challenges. Therefore, everything that is awaiting solution has it root in an unasked questions.

Questions can be difficult to answer but they are forces that unmask for reality and display the real person. Remember ask it shall be given and seek you shall found and knock the door shall be open unto you. Only those that ask question are qualify for answer. Remember we live in the world of answers.

Ask question about your finances. What will be your economy status in the next five years if you continue to squander your entire paycheck?

Ask question about your health. Remember, health is wealth. The percentage of your good health will determine the capacity of the wealth that you will enjoy. How long will you live with the present health?

Ask question about your personal development. The level of your preparation will always determine your level of your usefulness. Your depth in life will determine your relevant to your world. The question you should ask yourself all the time is that am I important to my world?

Ask question about your spiritual life. Remember, the physical world is control by the spiritual world. If you don’t develop your spirit man, you will end as a prey to the roaring lion of this world. This is the question of spirituality how much of the word of God do I know?

The question you don’t ask today will be a strong reason to stop you tomorrow. If you don’t want to be stopped you need to ask and answer some tough questions.

Think Questions Think Solutions

…keep living, keep going and keep winning. Everything is possible if you are positive.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150705… PROCRASTINATION

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Leave Nothing Undone, Don’t Procrastinate.

The real enemy of life is procrastination. Procrastination have the capacity to reduce giant to dwarf, it turn the rich to live an average life, and it can turn abundance to lack and excess to emptiness. So to retire on your bed at night without the day being completed is a solid foundation of regrettable future. Procrastination is deceitful, it makes you not to pay attention to the danger of not doing the necessary for the day, it store up the regret of the week and turn up to the month, which finally contribute to the total failure of the year.

This is the secret whatever that must be done today must be done now. Also what you don’t feel like doing is what you needed to do now. Refuse to fall cheap for the deceit of the procrastination. As greatness start with little so regret begin unnoticed. It is foolishness to be first class and be a failure in life. You need to be smart about the lesson of life. Take the bull by the horns—take your life serious and do what you need to do. Life is serious that is why it is called life or death. You can’t be neutral in the school of action, you either doing something or you are doing nothing.

Make that call today. Send that email today. Write that essay today. Sit with your spouse today. Talk to your children today. Whatever the future demands will be block by the care of today, but It is your choice to see that the future receive all that it demand. Whatever you left undone will exempt you from the next opportunity. Success in my words is simply something that is properly done in the right place, with the right people at the right time.

As you start today I want you to move with the mentality that nothing is permitted to be carryover. Whatever that needed to be done today must be done today.

Think Success, Detest Procrastination.

…keep living, keep going and keep winning. Everything is possible if you are positive.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150704… STOP COMPLAINING

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Change Your Perspective, Look Up To God And Stop Complaining.

Appreciation get God’s attention but complain strike His heart. One of the greatest things that displeases God is complain. Ingratitude demean God’s omnipotence. My advise to you this morning is to stop seeing what is not working and start contenting every of your situation. Having in mind that you are more than a conqueror. Number 11:1 …Now when the people complained it displeased the lord… Complaining simply put God is too slow to make good His promises. But 2 Peter 3:9 said God is not slow to make God is promises. The question is who is lying? Is either be God or you. But Rom 3:4 recorded that …certainly not! Indeed let God Be true but every man a liars. You may be asking why God won’t lie. The answer is simple, He is not a man and He is not born of human He does not need repentance. Num 23:19.

You will not stop complaining if you are expecting from men, you can never get the best of God if you are looking up to men and you will always be at the mercy of men if you don’t build relationship with God. Frustration therefore, is a product of expectation from men while thanksgiving is a results of looking up to God.

Your present challenges are signs of your future uplifting. You can never escape test if you want to embrace promotion. Likewise growth is a function of experience, unfortunate you cannot gain experience from books you can only undergo life training to be experienced. While you are learning the process of life, see to it that you don’t give room for complains. To stay out of complain you must embrace God, do your best and keep faith. Have in mind that God cannot wrong you. He is too faithful to fail. He is dependable and reliable, He is more than ALL. To escapes God’s destruction you have to stop complaining.

Think destruction think complaining

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150703…READING AND STUDYING

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I Want You To Leverage On The Secret Power Of Reading And Studying

If you don’t study today you will end stupid tomorrow. You can escape the consequences of somethings but not the consequences of lack of study. The reason is simple what you don’t know can’t help you, ignorance is not bliss, what you don’t know will hurt you. Remember ignorance of the law excuse no man and Ignorance of the law is no excuse in the court of law.

It is what you know that will place value on your life. What you don’t know will contribute nothing to you. You need to know and you need to study. This what Apostle Paul said to his protégé Timothy and I quote “Study to show yourself approved unto God, a workman that needed not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth” 2 Tim 2:15.

The reason why people won’t succeed is very simple. They refuse to read books and study life. If you want to have successful marriage, it is wisdom to study books on marriages. If you want to own much wealth and create a good life lifestyle, it wisdom to study wealth. To have a successful business and become a good leader, it is wisdom to read books on how to build good business and become a good and decisive leadership. They are books on how to read faster, to be a better parent and train children. This is the secret you are solely responsible for the outcome of your life. If you don’t take responsibility to study today, you have sign up for a lifestyle of unlimited liability.

As you start the third day in this month of responsibility. I want you to move like wind, roar like a lion and be calm like a dove. Sit down to study, acquire relevant knowledge and be responsible to be in charge of your life. To be in charge of your own life, you have to be hungry to know. Be hungry to know and be desperate to learn. Everything may not reward but studying and reading will surely pay.

Think Success Think Study

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150702…PLANNING

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Have Plan And Follow It

It is no more news that if you don’t plan to succeed you have automatically plan to fail. This is the secret planning secures destiny and buy the future. If you refuse to plan today you will not have a place tomorrow. Planning is one of the forces in the school of success that engender greatness. If you embrace it, it will please you. Whenever planning is solid, the future is guarantee.

The result of the first six months of the year is a result of your planning. If you start this month without good planning you will see December just the way you witness June. You can’t afford to live just like everybody. You need to think far and think deep. Planning is the secret that birth rest and confidence. Planning is living in the future and expecting the reality of your believe.

If you don’t have good plan for your day it will surely be useless. If you don’t have good plan for the month it will surely not be profitable. If you don’t have good plans for your economy you will surely end poor. If you don’t have good plan for your marriage you will surely divorce. If you don’t have good plan for your career you will surely end in lack. Results make the heart merry, but the key to result is planning.

If you don’t sit to plan you will stand to fail. It is hard work to plan but it is harder to live a life of no results. This morning as you start the second day in this month of responsibility, I want you to plan and follow it. Remember To humans belong the plans of the heart, but from the LORD comes the proper answer of the tongue (Proverbs 16:1)

Think Planning Think New Month.

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man

Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150701…Think Change

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Think Change

You can’t afford to live this month the way you live last month. Think change and make a changes. Change is the one of the vital forces in the school of success. You can’t afford to use old version and get new results. Without change you will be in chain, without change you will end in vain and without change you will soon age.

Anything that has life needs life. Give your best and give your life to your vision, dreams, goals and everything that matter to you. Whatever that will profit you will first demand from you. Nothing is free, everything needs to be pay for and guess who will make the payment it is you. Easiness kills, simplicity is costly and foolishness has a high cost that you can’t afford. To see something different you have to do something different. Think service to God, think love to humanity and deal with others with fairness.

This morning I want you to think change and work it. I want you to talk change and act it. I want you to behave change and subscribe to process for progress. Desire is key to life. All achievement are born by positive desire. After desire is deserve. You can only deserve something after you have change something. Change your perspective, change your approach, change your action and change whatever that needed to be change. Without Change life will never deliver.

Think Change, Think You and Think Success.

Happy New Month.

Think Change!

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150621…FAMILY

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Involve Your Family

Family is the platform of testing vision and purpose. Family makes home which is a place of rest. If you want peace and see success you have to use the platform of family. Nobody gets results without team your family is your team. Nobody gets thing done without confidence family nurse boldness because you are not alone.

The level of what you control is a product of what you manage. The number of people that you are responsible for will determine the capacity of your portion. Family is the platform of the level of God’s blessing in your life. Transparency is the first law of success. The good use of family has capability to skyrocket. Everything start from home. Whatever you cannot sell to your family nobody will buy it. Talk to your wife about the next project, let your husband give you go ahead before you get involve in your next project. Let all the children know about plans and vision of the family.

Energy and pushes are always available when family are involve. If you are not using family platform you are missing out of God’ goodies for your life. Don’t silent your family get them involve. Don’t think they don’t have what to contribute give them a chance. If you can get them involve you have open up doors of unlimited success to yourself.

As you step out today think your family get them involve. Communication is the platform for understanding and understanding is what makes everything outstanding. If you fails with your family nobody fails, but if you fail alone everybody fails.

Involve Your Family.

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150620…PRAYER

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I’m Here To Ask If You Have Prayed

As communication is one of the evidences of healthy relationship, so pray is the evidence of your heart to God. Prayer is an act of communicating to God base on His words. Prayer is the force that changes things and the secret behind the renewal of destiny.

One of the good things that you can do for yourself is to renew your prayer altar and talk to God often. Men are limited but God is unlimited. What you need now and the things you will need in the future are all in the hands of God. So, why are you asking for right thing from wrong person? Remember the earth is of the lord and the fullness therein.

Jesus said come to me all you that labor and I will give you rest (come talk to me I am ready for you) Don’t you know if you pray about your present situation God can change it for good? Talking to God guarantee peace and answer. Stop talking to people about what others has done wrong for you. Start reporting them to God via prayer. If God step in and handle the situation every storm will be over and opposition will turn to friend. Remember if God is for us who can be against us. Rom 8:31

Before you leave your house, go on your knees and pray. God is waiting, willing and ready to talk to you. Remember, you need to pray without ceasing and men always ought to pray and not to faint.

Be Prayerful.

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man

Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150619…RESPONSIBILITY

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If You Hate It You Will Lack Result, If You Embrace It You Will Be In Charge. It Is Called Responsibility

Nothing happens by passing blames. Nothing can be done while you are expecting from others. Greatness is always far from the lazy and result becomes impossible for those that hate to be in charge of their lives. Real life therefore, has it root in responsibility.

If you don’t know what you want and ready to pay the price to get it, nobody will show up to build team and join forces to achieve it with you. Responsibility is the force of greatness and the key to real success. If you are not responsible you might end disable and live miserable.

If responsibility is not in place, greatness is not in view. If responsibility is not in place, people settle for average life. If responsibility is not in place, lacks surface and impossible take over the platform.

Responsibility is the lion of life that fight for his share, get the best and takeover ALL. Unfortunate, responsibility is not a gift but a choice. But it is the choice of the wise.
Take responsibility today and refuse to be liability tomorrow.

As you launch today, don’t ask what people will do for you, but ask how you can be of help to people. If you ask you will be disappointed but if you give you will receive several appointments. Take responsible today and take lead in life.

Be Responsible.

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Morning Dose 20150618…SUPRESTAR

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Strive To Become The Superstar

Stars are respectable leaders in their fields. If you don’t know what you want to be, you will surely become what you don’t want to be. It is easy to be lost in the crowd, I bet you it cost nothing to get weary of vision. The reason is simple, a life without determination is worthless as a life of success has a price tag.

Be good in what you are doing. Be the solution to problems, be an answer to questions. Create the pathway for others to tread. Study to show yourself approve, labor to standout, be well prepare to take the stage of life. Remember greatness is not cheap as success is not free.

Everything that you call life today are all products of some stars. Politicians are stars, the manufacturers of your mobile phones are also stars. The producers of your personal computers, and electronics are all stars. Pastors are stars. So superstars are the star that exceed other stars in their field. Strive to be the best, do more than what you can do today so you can get what others can’t tomorrow. You can’t beat effort as all laborers are worthy of their wages.

As you go out today make sure you standout, be outstanding. Have the mentality of the superstar. Declare it, act it, front it and move towards the same direction. Whatever seems impossible to achieve will needs God through Jesus Christ to bring to past. You need Jesus because He is bright and morning star.

Become The Superstar!

…be inspired, live abundant life and help others, because life is good.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun