Hello, this is the SECRET MOMENT with Rotimi Adedokun. I am a pastor, life coach, inspirational speaker, and counselor. Today, I will be sharing with you The 7 Secrets That My Mother Taught Me (Late Mrs. Grace O. Adedokun). If you are new to this channel, please subscribe now and turn on the bell notification button so you can be alert anytime we upload a new video. If you ready let’s get started.
1. The Responsibility Of Good Parenting
Good parent ensures their children are taught. Never bring to this world the children that you don’t have the capacity to train. Your Children’s outlook and personalities are reflections of the type of parent that you are. Only a useless parent careless about the welfare of their children. No child can outgrow parental care. Until your children are established, you should never relax on your responsibilities to them. Train and follow up, follow up, watch them, and watch them until they are successful.
2. Becoming A Good Husband
The joy and the secret of a woman are in the hands of a real, responsible, and mature man. Be everything that your wife needs she said. No woman is beautiful than the level of care that she can receive. If you can give your wife the best, you will receive nothing from her but the best. The beauty of a woman is directly proportionate to the level of peace, care, and joy her husband can make available, bestow, and unleash on her.
3. Build A Strong Relationship And Serve God
Rotimi, I asked God to give me a male child at the low point of my life, at the edge of losing my marriage, and God answers me that was why I named you Oluwarotimi and Samuel. Therefore, you cannot afford not to know and serve God she said. I ask you from God like Hannah and I have dedicated you to Him. You cannot live your life without acknowledging the one who gives it. You must know and serve God; these are the essence of living. John Lennox said the essence of life is enjoyment, my mother said the essence of life is knowing and serving God. I think I will go with my mother.
4. Don’t Trust in Your Parent Wealth, because Greatness Is NOT TRANSFERABLE
Whatever you don’t labor to get or work with your hands will never last. Inheritance is will soon become a weight that will soon crash on those who believe in it. Nothing great in life is transferable. If you ever have a wealth transfer to you, you must be ready to double up and work hard to keep it. Hard work is the real wealth she added. If you want something to last, you must be ready to work for it. Those who still linger around our single-family property in Lagos, Nigeria, know that nothing transferable is enough.
5. Make Hay While The Sun Shines
Whatever that you cannot do on time, will not reward you in real-time. Twenty children cannot play for twenty years, don’t settle with people that you are seeing now. If you want to wear the crown you must separate yourself from the crowd and run your own race. Refuse to be comfortable, look straight ahead of you, and see ahead of others, thereby making you live a more serious and determined life. You are a man Rotimi, she said, you are also my son. I need you to take life seriously and get the best of the season that life presents to you Now. If you want to get the best of life, you must be ready, before success knocks at your door.
6. Always Follow Peace And Be Strong
The hearts of men are desperately wicked. Don’t underestimate people who don’t know God. They don’t have a future, so they are ready to truncate the future of others. Settle with people and be at peace. Don’t use your useful time to fight, when you can use the same time to buildup yourself if you are at peace with your enemy. Know your wrongs, ask for forgiveness, forgive yourself, and detach from your past errors. Don’t hang around people who will amplify your error and downgrade your success. They are on a mission to judge you, don’t give them attention, and don’t allow their expectations to become your outcome.
7. Don’t Loan The Money That You Cannot Let Go
She said you will never know the real person that you are dealing with unless money is involved in your relationship. She continued, money has a mouth, money is a spirit and money can create the problem that your hands cannot handle. Don’t allow money to get between you and anybody. People can do anything for the sake of money. Don’t cheat people and let go if they cheat you. You can never have peace with someone who lost to you in court. Therefore, refuse to initiate a necessary unending war, on a mission to take away your peace.
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