The 7 Life Lessons From My Mother

Hello, this is the SECRET MOMENT with Rotimi Adedokun. I am a pastor, life coach, inspirational speaker, and counselor. Today, I will be sharing with you The 7 Secrets That My Mother Taught Me (Late Mrs. Grace O. Adedokun). If you are new to this channel, please subscribe now and turn on the bell notification button so you can be alert anytime we upload a new video. If you ready let’s get started.

1. The Responsibility Of Good Parenting
Good parent ensures their children are taught. Never bring to this world the children that you don’t have the capacity to train. Your Children’s outlook and personalities are reflections of the type of parent that you are. Only a useless parent careless about the welfare of their children. No child can outgrow parental care. Until your children are established, you should never relax on your responsibilities to them. Train and follow up, follow up, watch them, and watch them until they are successful.

2. Becoming A Good Husband
The joy and the secret of a woman are in the hands of a real, responsible, and mature man. Be everything that your wife needs she said. No woman is beautiful than the level of care that she can receive. If you can give your wife the best, you will receive nothing from her but the best. The beauty of a woman is directly proportionate to the level of peace, care, and joy her husband can make available, bestow, and unleash on her.

3. Build A Strong Relationship And Serve God
Rotimi, I asked God to give me a male child at the low point of my life, at the edge of losing my marriage, and God answers me that was why I named you Oluwarotimi and Samuel. Therefore, you cannot afford not to know and serve God she said. I ask you from God like Hannah and I have dedicated you to Him. You cannot live your life without acknowledging the one who gives it. You must know and serve God; these are the essence of living. John Lennox said the essence of life is enjoyment, my mother said the essence of life is knowing and serving God. I think I will go with my mother.

4. Don’t Trust in Your Parent Wealth, because Greatness Is NOT TRANSFERABLE
Whatever you don’t labor to get or work with your hands will never last. Inheritance is will soon become a weight that will soon crash on those who believe in it. Nothing great in life is transferable. If you ever have a wealth transfer to you, you must be ready to double up and work hard to keep it. Hard work is the real wealth she added. If you want something to last, you must be ready to work for it. Those who still linger around our single-family property in Lagos, Nigeria, know that nothing transferable is enough.

5. Make Hay While The Sun Shines
Whatever that you cannot do on time, will not reward you in real-time. Twenty children cannot play for twenty years, don’t settle with people that you are seeing now. If you want to wear the crown you must separate yourself from the crowd and run your own race. Refuse to be comfortable, look straight ahead of you, and see ahead of others, thereby making you live a more serious and determined life. You are a man Rotimi, she said, you are also my son. I need you to take life seriously and get the best of the season that life presents to you Now. If you want to get the best of life, you must be ready, before success knocks at your door.

6. Always Follow Peace And Be Strong
The hearts of men are desperately wicked. Don’t underestimate people who don’t know God. They don’t have a future, so they are ready to truncate the future of others. Settle with people and be at peace. Don’t use your useful time to fight, when you can use the same time to buildup yourself if you are at peace with your enemy. Know your wrongs, ask for forgiveness, forgive yourself, and detach from your past errors. Don’t hang around people who will amplify your error and downgrade your success. They are on a mission to judge you, don’t give them attention, and don’t allow their expectations to become your outcome.

7. Don’t Loan The Money That You Cannot Let Go
She said you will never know the real person that you are dealing with unless money is involved in your relationship. She continued, money has a mouth, money is a spirit and money can create the problem that your hands cannot handle. Don’t allow money to get between you and anybody. People can do anything for the sake of money. Don’t cheat people and let go if they cheat you. You can never have peace with someone who lost to you in court. Therefore, refuse to initiate a necessary unending war, on a mission to take away your peace.

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Time Is The Revealer: The 7 Secrets Of Life

Me One of the proverbs in Africa says, twenty children cannot play for twenty years. I did not really understand this when I was young. I try to figure it out in my head, I reflected on it anytime it flashes back to my mind. But all these processes never explained to me the reason for the proverb. I kept my ways and still living my life like others until I discovered my purpose and had an encounter with destiny.

Greatness is not for everybody, but just anybody can be great. Wellness is available for all but it is not everybody that live a life of wellness. Life is a secret. And only those who embark on the journey of life can make something great out of it. Formal education is good but is not the ultimate determinant of life. To be a first class student in the school is very good, but it can never be the yardstick to measure success.

Life has rules that need to be learned, applied and followed. Greatness has some demands and price that needs to supply and paid. If the necessary things are not put in place, the necessary will never be supplied. Only those that do it well, will live well and enjoy well.

Sometimes, when I check social media and look at some pictures of people, I got worried and baffled. My question is where are the A students? Where are the people that I thought will make it faster than me in life? All of a sudden their identities fizzle out, expectation disappeared and reality set in.

I kept asking, where are the people that when they talked, I dare not whisper? Where are people that I thought I will never match up with in life? People that passed their high school exams when I had to repeated mine four times? Where are the first class students in the polytechnic and I had no class? Where are the people that can write better than me? Where are the people who spoke better English language than me?

More so, after I crossed the Atlantic Ocean from the land of green white green to the land of 50 stars, people that got here before me that I thought they are smarter, sharper and wiser. I tried to look for their identities and I cannot even find their footprints. This is my verdict, “life will truly reveal true mates.”

I have these 7 secrets which I think will change your life and catapult you ahead of people that you think has gone ahead. These secrets worked for me and it can work for you too. These secrets are not what I think will work, but what I know that has worked. These secrets don’t care about your background or where you are right now. Fortunately, these secrets are blind, they can’t even recognize who uses them and who does not. They are also deaf, they cannot recognize voices or in turn, favor one person over the others. As you know that God does not have a favorite (Acts 10:34).

1 Identify yourself with your creator
Everything in life is manufactured by someone which includes you. Therefore, you are a product of a manufacturer. His name is Yahweh (God). He sent His only begotten Son to die for your sin and restores you back to where He intended for you. Your identification with Jesus Christ, will spark up a new light and open a new chapter in your life. I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

2 Decide to follow God’s leading
As, no sheep can outgrow the leading of a shepherd, so no child of God can outgrow the leading of God through the Holy Spirit. Remember, what king David said, “The Lord is my shepherd and I shall not want” (Ps 23:1). I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

3 Identify the cost of life
According to Dr. Mike Murdock, there are two things about Jesus. His principles and person. His principles create prosperity, while His person creates peace. Everything comes with a cost, which includes prosperity and peace. No matter what you need in life, you need to be ready to go on an adventure to know what will make it work and what will not make it work. No cost no value, and no value no cost. I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

4 Pay the price for a great life
It is one thing to know, but it is another thing to do. Doing is the father of knowledge. Activities are what complete the miracle process of life. If you stop you will get stuck. Pay the price for life, don’t stop paying and keep at it. No one will stop you to get whatever you want on a shelf in a store, but when you are about to exit you will be asked to pay. Payment is what transfers ownership. Pay the price of life. I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

5. Go on a different route
The mindset of competition sometimes can slow down anyone that just want to start the race of life. I will advise you to turn 180 degrees and face a different direction. Go and develop yourself. Job said, “He gets his knowledge from afar…” (Job 36:3). Sometimes local people appreciate more of international stuff. If I were you, I will leave my comfort zone and learn what is needed to lead when I come back. I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

6 Get a mentor
Every apostle was once a disciple. Every Ph.D. was once an undergraduate. Everything starts from somewhere. Your future is a product of direction that you get today. You don’t need to reinvent the wheel, just follow the path of a giant. Look for someone, who has accomplished what you desire in life. Mentors are the pathways to your destination. They are the horses that you need to ride to your destination. Look for them, learn from them, and serve them. Remember, to learn as you go and grow as you learn. I know you are thinking it is not true. My question to you is that, what if it is true?

7 Maintain the pace, keep doing the same thing, and do it right.
It is good to think outside the box but is not good to end there. Remember, how you get to where you are and always go back to the basics. Without maintenance, there will never be attainment. You need to nurture your discoveries and retain all your secrets before you can maintain your great future. Always remember, that your present mates may not be your true mates. Keep your mind on the goals, always be positive, also know that time is a revealer of true mates.

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…keep living, keep going and keep winning. Everything is possible if you are positive.

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Rotimi Adedokun

The five Secret Ways To Live Real Life

MeWe are in a beautiful world where you can find beautiful things and get the best out of the best. Life itself is beautiful when all the secrets are properly followed and practice. So if anything is working that means someone is making it work. So you need to stand up and take responsibility If you don’t want to die liability. Refuse an average life, dare to live your real life. How you do anything is how you will do everything. You need to take life seriously and give all your best to get the best of it. If you take life casual, you might end up a casualty. Therefore, below are The 5 Secrets to live a fulfilling life:

1          Recognize Your Creator: Until you recognize your source you will not be able to live your life. God Is your greatest asset that will give your life meaning and make it worth living. Your source is what guarantees your flow, and inspires you for action. If you do not want to run dry, recognize God and get connected to Him on time.

2          Believe in Yourself: Until you believe you can do it, you will remain where you are, and you may never do anything. If you put your trust in any man you have successfully enslaved your destiny. It’s good to have people that will motivate you to take action but you must believe in yourself. Believe in yourself if you don’t want to lose bearing of the future. Therefore, don’t waste your life you have just one, take responsibility if you want to feature in your future.

3          Invest In yourself: The worlds best are not certificate holders they are simply vision drivers. Sometimes the best in the class ends up working for the least in class. Education will make you literate, but it is your investment in the literature that will guarantee your actual future. Self-development and personal growth on a consistent basis are the keys that guarantee your relevance.

4          Ready to acquire new Knowledge: Life is evolving, things are changing, if you do not learn, update and catch up with the flow, you will be left behind. If you think you have done something great, someone somewhere has done something wonderful which is far better than what you are celebrating. Never rest on your oars if you don’t want to lose your space be ready to learn, and unlearn, and relearn, real living is all about the acquisition of relevant knowledge.

5          Practice the law of Sowing and Reaping: It is no more news that one of the major laws that govern the universe is the law of sowing and reaping. Only a fool will be expecting to get pay without work, and hoping to withdraw where didn’t save. You need to sow your seed, and inputs your best, so you can harvest and get your desired output. Nothing works until someone works it, nothing happens until someone makes it happen. Be the person that will change our world. Do not expect someone will come to help you out.

Living contrary to the five pointers above is a guarantee that you are living a fake life. Life is a choice but the wise will choose right.

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The Big Question Of Life

Serious

Finance Is Serious. You Have To Be Serious In Saving And Investing. Don’t Spend The Money You Don’t Have And Don’t Buy What You Can’t Afford. Building Credit Is A New Generation Of Slavery. Remember, The Borrower Is A Servant To The Lender And The Voice Of The Poor Is Not Heard. Get Serious About Your Finances.

Education Is Serious. You Have To Know, Learn And Study. You Can’t Give What You Don’t Have. The Law Of Education States That –If You Don’t Have It You Can’t Give It, If You Have It You Can’t Hide It. Building Mental Capacity And Develop Sound Mind Is The Secret Of Champions. Acquiring Adequate And Relevant Knowledge In Your Field Will Launch You Beyond Your Imagination. Anytime You Are In Challenge, Life Is Simply Ask You To Display Your Level Of Knowledge In That Area. So Your Level Of Education Will Determine Your Level Of Response. Get Serious Life Is Serious.

Building Family Is Serious. The Foundational Secret Of Family Success Is Husband Must Love And Wife Must Respect Any Order Thing Is Just Decoration. Get Serious About Your Marriage Love Your Wife, Get Serious About Your Marriage Respect Your Husband. I Know That, It Is Hard To Love A Woman That Won’t Respect, And Very Hard To Respect A Man That Won’t Love. But One More Thing That I Know Very Well Is That Excuse Is Not A Jargon In The School OF Success, The Secret Is Succeed Anyhow.

The Goodnews Is That You Shall Be Celebrated If You Succeed But You Will Be Overwhelm With Shame If Your Marriage Collapse, If You End-up Broke And Stupid For Lack Of Knowledge. In The School Of Success Nobody Listen To Stories, Because Life First Demand Your Result And Later Demand Your Testimony Not Story. That Is Why You Need To Get Serious To Learn And Know All That You Need To Know About Finance, Self Development And Marriage. Get Serious Life is Serious.

Nobody Can Escape The Question Of Life. Are You Serious?

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