The 7 Life Lessons From My Mother

Hello, this is the SECRET MOMENT with Rotimi Adedokun. I am a pastor, life coach, inspirational speaker, and counselor. Today, I will be sharing with you The 7 Secrets That My Mother Taught Me (Late Mrs. Grace O. Adedokun). If you are new to this channel, please subscribe now and turn on the bell notification button so you can be alert anytime we upload a new video. If you ready let’s get started.

1. The Responsibility Of Good Parenting
Good parent ensures their children are taught. Never bring to this world the children that you don’t have the capacity to train. Your Children’s outlook and personalities are reflections of the type of parent that you are. Only a useless parent careless about the welfare of their children. No child can outgrow parental care. Until your children are established, you should never relax on your responsibilities to them. Train and follow up, follow up, watch them, and watch them until they are successful.

2. Becoming A Good Husband
The joy and the secret of a woman are in the hands of a real, responsible, and mature man. Be everything that your wife needs she said. No woman is beautiful than the level of care that she can receive. If you can give your wife the best, you will receive nothing from her but the best. The beauty of a woman is directly proportionate to the level of peace, care, and joy her husband can make available, bestow, and unleash on her.

3. Build A Strong Relationship And Serve God
Rotimi, I asked God to give me a male child at the low point of my life, at the edge of losing my marriage, and God answers me that was why I named you Oluwarotimi and Samuel. Therefore, you cannot afford not to know and serve God she said. I ask you from God like Hannah and I have dedicated you to Him. You cannot live your life without acknowledging the one who gives it. You must know and serve God; these are the essence of living. John Lennox said the essence of life is enjoyment, my mother said the essence of life is knowing and serving God. I think I will go with my mother.

4. Don’t Trust in Your Parent Wealth, because Greatness Is NOT TRANSFERABLE
Whatever you don’t labor to get or work with your hands will never last. Inheritance is will soon become a weight that will soon crash on those who believe in it. Nothing great in life is transferable. If you ever have a wealth transfer to you, you must be ready to double up and work hard to keep it. Hard work is the real wealth she added. If you want something to last, you must be ready to work for it. Those who still linger around our single-family property in Lagos, Nigeria, know that nothing transferable is enough.

5. Make Hay While The Sun Shines
Whatever that you cannot do on time, will not reward you in real-time. Twenty children cannot play for twenty years, don’t settle with people that you are seeing now. If you want to wear the crown you must separate yourself from the crowd and run your own race. Refuse to be comfortable, look straight ahead of you, and see ahead of others, thereby making you live a more serious and determined life. You are a man Rotimi, she said, you are also my son. I need you to take life seriously and get the best of the season that life presents to you Now. If you want to get the best of life, you must be ready, before success knocks at your door.

6. Always Follow Peace And Be Strong
The hearts of men are desperately wicked. Don’t underestimate people who don’t know God. They don’t have a future, so they are ready to truncate the future of others. Settle with people and be at peace. Don’t use your useful time to fight, when you can use the same time to buildup yourself if you are at peace with your enemy. Know your wrongs, ask for forgiveness, forgive yourself, and detach from your past errors. Don’t hang around people who will amplify your error and downgrade your success. They are on a mission to judge you, don’t give them attention, and don’t allow their expectations to become your outcome.

7. Don’t Loan The Money That You Cannot Let Go
She said you will never know the real person that you are dealing with unless money is involved in your relationship. She continued, money has a mouth, money is a spirit and money can create the problem that your hands cannot handle. Don’t allow money to get between you and anybody. People can do anything for the sake of money. Don’t cheat people and let go if they cheat you. You can never have peace with someone who lost to you in court. Therefore, refuse to initiate a necessary unending war, on a mission to take away your peace.

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Wisdom101 |02122020 | Rotimi Adedokun

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Day 43/12| FEB 2020
2020 324 Days Left.
2020 42 Days Gone

Life is first in first out; accountants called it FIFO. I called it the law of profiting. What you don’t allow can never allow you; what you don’t invest in will never profit. In the same vein, the best of God in a man’s is a product of the best of man’s investment in the things of God. The secret is this; life is predictable; what you allow will determine what will allow you, and what you permit will permit you. Those who give their best to God will get the best of God. Ask Abraham, Isaac, Jacob, and Joseph. The reason is simple; until God becomes a resident in your heart, He won’t become a president of in your life.

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FEB 5 2020 | One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 36| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | John 5 and 6

Feb 5, 2020

John 5-6
1. Scripture of The Day
John 5:17
But Jesus replied, “My Father constantly does good, and I’m following his example.”

2. Prayer Points
Father, in the name of Jesus, I receive the Life of God through Christ Jesus.
John 5:21
21 For as the Father raiseth up the dead, and quickeneth them; even so the Son quickeneth whom he will.

3. Prophecies
John 5:25
25 Verily, verily, I say unto you, The hour is coming, and now is, when the dead shall hear the voice of the Son of God: and they that hear shall live.

This year everything dying in your life will come back alive at the call of the name of Jesus’ name.

4. Revelation
John 5:14…do not sin anymore so that nothing worse happens to you
Sometimes sin birth sickness.

John 6: 10
… Have the people sit down,
Orderliness
Arrangement
Decency

…There was much grass in the place
Opportunity
Blessings
Expansion

…The men sat down
Compose
Discipline
Dedicate

John 6:21…so they were willing to receive Him into the boat and immediately the boat was at the land to which they were going.
Ø Divine Speed is the end result to those who will identify and receive Jesus

John 6:35… I am the bread of life; he who comes to Me will not hunger, and he who believes in Me will never thirst.
Your desire for Jesus will end all of your needs. Absent of Jesus initiates continuous need.
Inspiration

John 5:6-7… Do wish to get well…Sir, I have no man to put me…”

Those who embrace excuses will never celebrate
Those who embrace excuses will never see results
Those who embrace excuses will never grow to their fullness
Those who embrace excuses will never enjoy the greatness
Those who embrace excuses will never fulfill purpose

John 6:12… gather up the leftover fragments so that nothing will be lost.

If you are not a good manager, you will soon lose your place
If you are not a good manager, you will soon lack resources
If you are not a good manager, you will soon run out of life
If you are not a good manager, you will soon beg for bread
If you are not a good manager, you will soon lose your influence

John 6:12… when the people saw the sign which He had performed, they said, “This is truly the Prophet who is to come into the world.”

Results convince critics
The Secret
John 5:30
I can of mine own self do nothing: as I hear, I judge: and my judgment is just; because I seek not mine own will, but the will of the Father which hath sent me.

Ø If you act without instruction, you will soon rupture because you lack structure.
John 6:15… He perceived that they intended to come and take Him by force to make Him King, withdrew again to the mountain by Himself alone.

All opportunities are not great opportunities; some are trap in disguise.
Action
John 5:8
Get Up, Pick Up your pallet and walk

Until you do what you have not done, you may never see what you want to see.

8. Question Of The Day
Q: According to John 6, who is the bread of life?
A: Jesus is the bread of life. John 6:35 and 48

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FEB 3 2020 | One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 34| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | John 1 and 2

Feb 3, 2020

John 1 and 2
1. Scripture Of The Day

KJV
In the beginning, was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.
2 The same was in the beginning with God.
3 All things were made by him, and without him was not anything made that was made.
4 In him was life, and the life was the light of men.
5 And the light shines in darkness, and the darkness comprehended it not.

MSG
1-2 The Word was first, the Word present to God, God present to the Word.
The Word was God, in readiness for God from day one.

3-5 Everything was created through him; nothing—not one thing! — came into being without him. What came into existence was Life, and the Life was Light to live by. The Life-Light blazed out of the darkness; the darkness couldn’t put it out.

2. Prayer Points
John 1:12
But as many as received him, to them gave he the power to become the sons of God, even to them that believe on his name:

Father, increase my faith as I receive the ability to become and remain your child in Jesus’ name.

3. Prophecies
John 1:50
Jesus answered and said unto him, Because I said unto thee, I saw thee under the fig tree, believest thou? thou shalt see greater things than these.

Ø This year by your faith in Jesus, you will see greater miracles from God in Jesus’ name.

4. Revelation
John 1:46
And Nathanael said unto him, Can there any good thing come out of Nazareth? Philip saith unto him, Come and see.

Secrets of News and Noise

Results are not in Noise but News
Those who make News don’t make Noise and vice versa

5. Inspiration
John 2:1-2
And the third day there was a marriage in Cana of Galilee, and the mother of Jesus was there:
2 And both Jesus was called, and his disciples, to the marriage.

Ø The Only assurance of your life sufficiency is your invitation to Jesus Christ. Without the invitation of Jesus, lack will be awaiting on you down the road.

6. The Secret
John 2:4
… She said to Him, they have no wine.

The Purpose of Jesus’ mother was to speak to Jesus
The Purpose of Jesus was to take away their shame.
You Cannot afford not to invite both Mary and Jesus.

John 2:5
Whatever He tells you to do, do it.
Ø Your full obedience to the Word of God is the foundation of your stable and sure future.

7. Action
John 2:8
Fill the water pot with waterpots with water.
God will never do what you can do for yourself.

8. Question Of The Day
Q: What is the first Miracles that Jesus performs
A: Turning Water to Wine. John 2:11

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FEB 2 2020 | One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 33| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Luke 23 and 24

Feb 2, 2020

Luke 23-24

1) Scripture Of The Day
Luke 24:5
5 And as they were afraid, and bowed down their faces to the earth, they said unto them, Why seek ye the living among the dead?

2) Prayer Points
Luke 23: 15 No, nor yet Herod: for I sent you to him; and, lo, nothing worthy of death is done unto him.

Ø Father in the name of Jesus, I declare and decree that nothing in me deserves death this year in Jesus’Jesus’ name.

3) Prophecies
Luke 23:18, 23
And they cried out all at once, saying, Away with this man, and release unto us Barabbas:

Ø This year, every evil noise around you shall be silent and not prevail over God’s purpose in my life in Jesus’ name.

Revelation
God’s favor is always awaiting anyone that trusts in God.
Luke 23:26… And as they led him away, they laid hold upon one Simon,

Ø Jesus was delivered to the will of the people, but Simon was on the way to help Him with the cross.

Luke 23:42-43
Jesus, remember me when you come in Your Kingdom.
Truly I say to you, today you shall be with Me in Paradise.

You only get what you ask.

Inspiration
Luke 23:24

Pilate delivers Jesus to their will.

5 Things to Know About Weak Leaders

Weak Leaders give weak judgment
Weak Leaders favor evil deeds
Weak Leaders place People’sPeople’s need over God Purpose
Weak Leaders live under pressure
Weak Leaders are mindful of the people

6) The Secret
Luke 24:45
Then opened he their understanding, that they might understand the scriptures

Then he opened their minds to understand at last these many Scriptures!

TPT
He supernaturally unlocked their understanding to receive the revelation of the Scriptures,

Without open eyes, there will be close scripture. Until your eyes are open, you will never see what the word of God is saying.
7) Action
Luke 24:10

Always be the first to make it happen, tell others, be the first to be in charge.
Women are more alert than men.

If you don’t do what you suppose to do, you will never enjoy what belongs to you.

8) Question Of The Day
Q: What was Jesus doing before He was taken into heaven?
A: Blessings His Disciples

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2020 One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 31| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Luke 19 and 20

01/31/2020
Luke 19 & 20

1. Scripture Of The Day
Luke 19:40 TPT
Jesus responded, “Listen to me. If my followers were silenced, the very stones would break forth with praises!”

2. Prayer Point
Luke 19:43-44…because you know not the time of your visitation.

Ø Father in the name of Jesus, by divine sensitivity I receive the capacity to know the time of my visitation, and the empowerment to do what I needed to do.

3. Prophecies
Luke 19:32…So those who were sent went away and found it just as He had told them.

Ø This year as it was told you by the Lord, you will find it in Jesus’ name.

4. Revelation
Luke 19:4 so he ran on ahead and climbed up a sycamore tree

Ø Sometime, all we need to do is to work smart and not hard, but until you work hard you can’t work smart.

5. Inspiration
Luke 19:5-6
Your Place of decision is the Place of God’s response.
Your Place of decision is the Place of manifestation
Your Place of decision is the Place of grace and mercy
Your Place of decision is the Place of your change
Your Place of decision is the Place of supernatural turn around

Ø The same place where Zaccheus decided and climb the tree was the same place that Jesus stood and called him to come down.

The Secret
The decision is the mother of a supernatural turn around.

Luke 19: 9…Today salvation has come to this house, because He, too, is a son of Abraham.

Abraham was a giver, and he decided to part with 50% of his possession, and to restitute anything that he might have taken forcefully from anyone.

The Young rich man was not ready to let go of his possession, but Zaccheus was ready. Luke 18:18-27.
7. Action
God is about growth, multiplication, and increase.
You have to put somethings to work before you can witness an increase and growth.

What you don’t put to use will not grow.
Luke 20:22-23

8. Question Of The Day
Q: Which stone becomes the head of the cornerstone?
A: Lk 20:17: the stone rejected by the builders.

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2020 One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 30| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Luke 17 and 18

01/30/2020
Luke 17 & 18

1. Scripture Of The Day
Luke 17:6

And the Lord said, If ye had faith as a grain of mustard seed, ye might say unto this sycamine tree, Be thou plucked up by the root, and be thou planted in the sea; and it should obey you.

2. Prayer Point
Luke 18:14 PT
“…For everyone who praises himself will one day be humiliated before all, and everyone who humbles himself will one day be lifted up and honored before all.”

Father, today I receive the spirit of humility that empowers to be humble, living humble, and consistently be humble in Jesus’ name.

3. Prophecies
2020 shall be the year that will make your life an attraction to many in Jesus’ name.

Luke 17:37.
And they answered and said unto him, Where, Lord? And he said unto them, Wheresoever the body is, thither will the eagles be gathered together.

4. Revelation

Luke 17:14… 14 And when he saw them, he said unto them, Go shew yourselves unto the priests. And it came to pass, that, as they went, they were cleansed.

Jesus is the Chief Priest
Heb. 4:14
14. Seeing then that we have a great high priest, that is passed into the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold fast our profession.

Ø Go and represent yourself to me.

5. Inspiration

Luke 17:17-18
17 Jesus asked, “Didn’t I heal ten men? Where are the nine? 18 Does only this foreigner return to give glory to God?”

The ratio of ingratitude to gratitude is 9/10.
One out of ten lepers, only one show up.

Luke 18:1-5

There is an enemy in life There is you, who knows what you want
He will not give you what you want to You constantly demand your share
The enemy is firm and won’t yield You keep asking and kept your demand
He thought of giving exemption to the rule You intended to wear out the enemy
The enemy gives up on you You get your desired results

Ø Self-focus is the key to impossibility
Luke 18:27…
KJV
The things which are impossible with men are possible with God.

PT
What appears humanly impossible is more than possible with God. For God can do what man cannot.”

LB
He replied, “God can do what men can’t!”

6. The Secret
Luke 17:19
Wellness is in your return. Only those who return will be fully restored.

7. Action
Luke 18:22

More giving
Much giving
Intentional giving
Abundance giving
Excessive giving

Reduce distraction and establish focus

Giving is living
Giving is focus
Giving is distributing
Giving is becoming a channel
Giving is life

Beyond giving is following
Following is what makes giving profitable
Profiting is trusting the commandment of giving
Giving is trusting God’s instructions
Adhering to God’s Instruction is your faith and trust in God

8. Question Of The Day
Q: Did Jesus called the blind man who was calling for mercy?
A: Yes, He did Luke 18:40

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2020 One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 27| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Luke 10 and 11

Jan 27, 2020
Luke 10 &11
1. Scripture Of The Day

Luke 10:19
Behold, I give unto you power to tread on serpents and scorpions, and overall the power of the enemy: and nothing shall by any means hurt you.

2. Prayer Points
Luke 10:30
And Jesus answering said, A certain man went down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among thieves, which stripped him of his raiment, and wounded him, and departed, leaving him half dead.

Father, by the power in the name of Jesus, this year, I will not find myself among the wrong company in Jesus’ name.

3. Prophecies
Luke 10:33
This year God will compel people to have compassion on you in Jesus’ name.

4. Revelation
Never allow someone else’s priority to become your number one goal.
Mary was listening to God’s word, but Martha was busying here and there.

Luke 10:42
LB
Martha was the jittery type and was worrying over the big dinner she was preparing.

MSG
Martha was pulled away by all she had to do in the kitchen.

PT
Martha became exasperated by finishing the numerous household chores in preparation for her guests,

What familiarity cannot do persistence will do it.

Luke 11:8
8 “But I’ll tell you this—though he won’t do it as a friend, if you keep knocking long enough, he will get up and give you everything you want—just because of your persistence.

5. Inspiration
Luke 10: 41One thing is necessary

5 Secrets Of ONE THING Luke 10:42

One thing is the key to your success
One thing is the secret to your next level
One thing is the highway to your destination
One thing is the ultimate to your desire
One thing is the hidden answer to your life

6. The Secret
Every other thing come after the word
Misplace priority is the highway to frustration.
First thing first, and the last thing last.

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5 Mistake of Martha Luke 10:38-42

Martha places hospitality over attention.
Martha places serving God over God serving her
Martha prioritizes her thought over God’s commandments (Let the word dwells in you richly).
Martha places satisfaction over communion
Martha values her purpose over Jesus’ mission.

7. Action
Luke 10:37… GO and Show Mercy To others

8. Question Of The Day
Q: The Pharisees pay tithe but refuse to do what?
A: Disregard justice and the love of God. Luke 10:42

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2020 One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 22| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Luke 1

Jan 22, 2020

1. Scripture of The Day
Luke 1:37 For with God nothing shall be impossible.

2. Prayer Point
Luke 1:26-27
Ø Father, send me the good news that turns to divine visitation for a change of name in Jesus’ name.

26. And in the sixth month, the angel Gabriel was sent from God unto a city of Galilee, named Nazareth,
27 To a virgin espoused to a man whose name was Joseph, of the house of David; and the virgin’s name was Mary.

Prophecies
All those who are doubting God in your life shall be mute until the prophecy come to pass in Jesus’ name.

Luke 1:18-20, 61-63.
18 And Zacharias said unto the angel, whereby shall I know this? for I am an old man, and my wife well stricken in years.
19 And the angel answering said unto him, I am Gabriel, that stand in the presence of God, and am sent to speak unto thee, and to shew thee these glad tidings.
20 And, behold, thou shalt be dumb, and not able to speak, until the day that these things shall be performed, because thou believest not my words, which shall be fulfilled in their season.
63 And he asked for a writing table, and wrote, saying, His name is John. And they marvelled all.
64 And his mouth was opened immediately, and his tongue loosed, and he spake, and praised God.

Revelation
Never allow your present situation to determine your service to God
Luke 1:8
8.And it came to pass, that while he executed the priest’s office before God in the order of his course,

Inspiration
Consistency of your serving with God will one day birth your long awaiting miracle.
Beyond prayer is service. The angel left those who are praying to attended to the need of someone who is serving.

Luke 1:9-11
And it came to pass, that while he executed the priest’s office before God in the order of his course,
9 According to the custom of the priest’s office, his lot was to burn incense when he went into the temple of the Lord.

10 And the whole multitude of the people were praying without at the time of incense.
11 And there appeared unto him an angel of the Lord standing on the right side of the altar of incense.

6. The Secret

Luke 1:15
15 For he shall be great in the sight of the Lord and shall drink neither wine nor strong drink; and he shall be filled with the Holy Ghost, even from his mother’s womb.

God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit don’t survive a place of competition. You cannot be filled with something else and be filled with the Holy Spirit at the same time.

Action
Luke 1:60… She said, “Not SO.”

Job 22:28… You shall decree a thing and it shall be established.

8. Question Of The Day
Q: What happens to the pregnant of Elisabeth when Mary visited her?
A: Answer Luke 1:41… The Baby leaped in her womb.

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2020 One Year Bible Reading Plan Day 20| Bible Study | Rotimi Adedokun | Mark 14


1. Scripture Of The Day

Mark 14:27
27 And Jesus saith unto them, All ye shall be offended because of me this night: for it is written, I will smite the shepherd, and the sheep shall be scattered.

2. Prayer Points
Mark 14:6
Father empower me to do an excellent job for You today in Jesus’ name.

Mark 14:9
Father, by divine orchestration, let me make the list of world changers in Jesus’ name.

3. Prophecies
Mark 14:55-59…their testimonies were not consistent

This year evil evidences that they are looking for to put you in trouble will result in nothing in Jesus’ name.

4. Revelation
Mark 14:8 She has done what she could.

All you need is just one man who will lead you to where you will be accepted.
Mark 14:13
So he sent two of his disciples ahead into Jerusalem with these instructions: “Make your way into the city and watch for a man carrying an earthenware pitcher of water. Follow him,

5. Inspiration
Mark 14:33… He took with Him Peter, James and John.

You cannot live by yourself…. You need people to carry through.

Mark 14:35…He went a little beyond them
You can make anything happening by staying at the same level as others.

Repetition is the mother of confidence and continuity.
Mark 14:39… He went away and prayed, saying the same words

Mark 14:50… They all left Him and fed…. Confirming verse 27… Strike down the shepherd and the sheep shall be scattered…

Your friends are not those who celebrate with you in merry time, but those who stand by you in a challenging period.

6. The Secrets
Mark 14:38
The willingness of your spirit needs the activeness of your flesh.

Mark 14:44…Whomever I kiss, He is the one, seize Him and lead Him away under guard.

A kiss from a friend sometimes hurts more than a knock from an enemy.

7. Action:
Mark 14:28
Watch and Pray that you may not come into temptation.
The cure to temptation is watching and praying.

8. Question Of The Day
Q: Who wept because he denied Jesus and how many times does it deny Jesus.
A: Mark 14:66-72

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