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My Note To The Married And Those That Are Desiring Marriage

Who you are is in your character and every good character must be build on the platform of experience and knowledge acquisition. In the area of marriage Life During Courtship Is the Preliminary Stage Of Marriage While Life After Marriage Ceremony Is The Real Marriage. Below are the 26 Secrets to know if you are about to sign up for or you are already in marriage.

THREE STAGES IN MARRIAGE
1. Knowing/Learning: Introduction Of The Real Self And Responsibility of Each Party To Change
2. Growing And Bonding: Despite The Flaws, Both Parties Still Love And Ready To Adjust To New ways Of Life
3. Living/Result: Enjoyment And Real Love Display Having Learned New Things And Growing At The Same Time

Ten Things To Expect In First STAGE OF MARRIAGE
1. Is The Stage At Which You Will See What You Don’t Know That You Once Think You Know
2. Is The Stage At Which You Will Know The Real Person You Marry
3. Is The Stage At Which You Will Know If You Are A Baby Or Adult
4. Is The Stage At Which You Don’t Have Anybody To Run To Except The Person That Wrong You
5. Is The Stage At Which You Will Make A Decision To Either Make It Worst Or Make It Work
6. Is The Stage At Which You Either Forgive Or You Try Another Marriage That Will Never Work
7. Is The Stage At Which You Will Wish To Still Remain Single, But Is Too Late
8. Is The Stage At Which All Of Your Assumption Will Either Be Manifestation Or Frustration
9. Is The Stage At Which You Will Be Thinking What Makes You Choose Your Spouse Among Others
10. Is The Stage At Which You Either Follow Your Heart And Lose Your Marriage Or You Follow God’s Instructions And Keep Your Marriage

LIFE NUGGETS ABOUT MARRIAGE
1. Ladies Start What They Can’t Finish, It Is Men Responsibility To Love Them Regardless Of Their Flaws
2. Improper And Lack Of Maximizing Singleness Will Largely Affect Marriage Negatively
3. It Is Better To Wait For God To Choose For You Than You Rush And Choose For Yourself Because You Will Automatically Rush Out
4. Every Marriage Must Be Tend And Keep, If You Don’t It Will Grow Thorns And Thistles For You
5. Marriage Is The Only Institution That You Will Receive Certificate On The Day Of Admission
6. You Either Make Your Marriage Work Or It Will Make Your Life Go Worst
7. It Is Better To Be Single And Learn Than To Be Married And Regret.
8. You Can’t Rethink After Your Oath And Signature
9. Husband As The Head And The Leader, Wife As The Neck And Follower
10. Everything That Start Must Finish With Both Parties, Introduction Of Third Party Is Forbidden

THREE SECRETS OF MARRIAGE
1. Marriage Is Your Launching Pad To The World Of Answered Prayer
2. Marriage Is The Platform In Life To Produce 10,000 Against Your Normal 1000
3. Marriage Is One Of Devil’s Strategies To Make People To Get Low Or No Result

To Your Success In This Month Of Exploit.

…Be Inspired, Help Others And Live Abundance Life

Rotimi Adedokun

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The Secret101/Self Development (6)

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Thursday is a Self Development Day. I had an experience yesterday, it makes me change my BB personal statement, I advise you read, because it going to help you, but if you are not on my list you can follow me on twitter @adedokunr or Facebook Adedokun Rotimi. Let’s talk about life again. A lot of people were surprised the first day they saw me on the TV program. I received a lot of calls and some that knew me before my appearance on the air, began to see me as extra ordinary being. And you know everybody is an ordinary begin, it is the extra thing that some people did that makes them extraordinary.

The secret is this, life will not respect your certificates, I have done stuff with master holders and I realized school is not school until you are screw into school. Life will only respect how much value you place on self development. Going back to bed without self development is like a day that never exist. Have you ever ask why Samsung will prefer Didier Drogba, Mikel Obi, and Michael Essien to you? Did those guys have the certificates that you possess? They service more people than you do, by developing their talents, that is what makes companies to prefer them. Anybody can be what you are, but not everybody can be star. Real money flow to the direction of stars, become one and you know what am talking about. Stars are in a position of what can I do with money, not I need money to do something. Self development is simply the ability to make yourself what people want, in other words be the answer to their questions, produce a product for their consumption.

What happen to one happen to all, 24hours is available to everybody, the same rain that falls on the poor falls on the rich, the same sun that shines on the poor shines on the rich. Food can be prepare in a good place and be call a sort of names but it is the same food that both rich and poor eat. The only difference in life is your capacity to choose and pay price to achieving your goals. The big question is what do you want from LIFE? Alot of people don’t know what they want that is why they are in want. Some people we say I need money,money and all that I need is money. Ask them how much do you need and what do you want to use the money for. You will be surprise they don’t have an answer. If you can build up yourself to a point you will know that all you need is available for your use.

You are the You that You need to change You, for You to get all that You want. Look at the mirror who you see is the man that is responsible for every state of your life. Ask the man what do you need from me, you will be shock at the reply. He will repeat the same back to you. So don’t give more outside build more on your inside. A few simple things practice everyday will never makes your life remains the same. Self Development is all about paying for value today in other to have your place in destiny tomorrow.

I have a dream one day companies in Nigeria will place advert in newspapers and only people without vision will apply. To make the dream come to pass we need to develop ourselves. Stop living today as if there is no tomorrow, coming out of your comfort zone and think outside the box. Be dissatisfy with the status quo. Stop thinking salary to earn, start thinking how to pay people salary.

I will leave you with this quote from a great man Dennis Waitley “The winners in life think constantly in terms of I can, I will, and I am. Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their
waking thoughts on what they should have or would have done, or what they can’t do.”. Who are you a winner or loser?

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The Secret 101/ ACCOUNT SETTLEMENT (5)

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Account settlement is the check mate software, designed by God for men to report their stewardship. I need to let you know this today, it is the breath of the lord God that makes your mortal body who you are today Gen2:7. What God is demanding from you is just for your own betterment ie. He wants to know how effective His breath works inside you. So give Him an answer. Three weeks ago, I taught that God owns you. Psalm100:4 “Acknowledge that the LORD is God! He made us, and we are his. We are his people, the sheep of his pasture.” The first law in the school of success is the law of recognition. It state that what you don’t know will neither know you nor make you.

So giving your account weekly is essential. It shows your effectiveness and readiness, also who you are and where you will be in few time. In fact nothing grows in life unless you account for it. How you engage in activities, and account for your productivity will determine your extend in life. What did you achieve for the week, the new things you learn, new contacts that you got, what did you do with them. How far did you go and who do you need to relate with in other to achieve for next week, what next do you need to do. Account settlement expands your capacity, it create more with your less. It makes you think deep and enlargement set in. So do you want more in life? Render your account each Saturday. Don’t join the 95% that live life as if there is part two, join the 5% that dictate the happenings. Remember you can’t be crown following crowd.

I want you to engage your inner drive and think deep. Ponder on how much value you’ve added to yourself, work more to place more. See yourself as a manager that need to report to the CEO of the your life. Nobody knows how much you can handle until you let them know what you have once handled. Account Settlement is a must, go ahead give it now.

Happy weekend. Please rebroadcast.

…be inspire, live abundant life, help others.
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