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The Secret To Failure

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Failure simply put neglect to do the right thing at right time.

Failure also is the postponement of what is needed to be done now, the inability to responds to responsibility and lack of vision to see the end result of work.

What Failure Is Not

Failure Is Not Lack Of Fat Bank Account.
Failure Is Not Lack Of Family Success.
Failure Is Not Lack Good Health
Failure Is Not Lack Good Car Or House
Failure Is Not Lack Promotion At Work.

What Is Failure

Failure is placing comfort over responsibility.
Failure is neglect of responsibility.
Failure is befriend procrastination but develop enmity with responsibility
Failure is lack of will-power to embrace work but celebrating irresponsibility
Failure is knowing what to do, when to do and how to do it, but refuse to take responsibility.

Jim Rohn Said Failure Is “A Few Errors In Judgment Repeated Everyday”

You should do it, you can do it, but you don’t do it = failure
You should read, you can read but you won’t read= failure
You should workout, you can do some workout but you don’t workout = failure
You should save money, you can save money, but you don’t save money= failure
You should pray, you can pray but you don’t pray= failure

Failure Therefore, Is Your Refusal To Do What You Have The Capacity To Do.

It is very hard to do, nobody has done it, nobody can do it, it is impossible Mr. Failure said. He will never see what is possible. A Failure is a person that is beclouded by reasons not to do anything because of his foolishness to see the opportunity ahead. He lives under the atmosphere of impossibilities and always overwhelm with adequate reasons not to succeed.

The End Result Of Failure

1. Devalue Destiny
2. Steals Happiness
3. Deflate Confidence
4. Reduce Self-worth
5. Evacuate Purpose

Failure Is Deceitful, You Can’t See The Effect On The Day That You Enroll Into Her College, But The Consequences Will Accumulate And Grow To A Point That Will Be Out Of Your Control And Capacity To Contain.

Areas Of Failure

Lack Of Personal Development Will Deny You Of Place In Destiny And Prepare A Place For You Among The Mediocre

Lack Of Effective Communication In Family Might Cost You Family Breakup.

Lack Of Spirituality Can Make You Become A Victim Of Circumstances, And Expose You To The Attack Of The Enemy.

Lack Of Eating Right And Burn Some Calories At The Right Time Will Cost You Good Health.

Lack Of Financial Planning Will Cost You Good Life And Make You Live A Life Of Distress.

My Advice…Don’t Let It Be You

Let everybody refuse responsibility, don’t let it be you
Let everybody refuse to read the book, don’t let it be you
Let everybody refuse to communicate with their family, don’t let it be you.
Let everybody refuse to standup and do the needful, don’t let it to be you.
Let everybody live a careless life, don’t let it to be you.

Failure is everyday, but the end result is what you see after one weeks, months and years and at the end of your life.

Trust in others or expecting from people is the highway to failure. Nobody is sufficient everybody is in need. Trust God and workout your believe then expect the miracle from the universe.

Happy Love Month

…Be Inspired, Help Others, And Live Abundance Life

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun
@adedokunr

The Secret Of Rest

Business man on the beachThink Rest Don’t Work All The Time. Think Work Don’t lazy Around. There Is Time For Everything.

The Definitions

Rest Is The Secret Power That Makes The Inner Man To Regain It’s Energy.

Rest Is Trusting In God On What You Have Done Right And Believing Him For What He Is Going To Do Through You.

Rest Is Relaxing For A Short Period In Other To Get Ready For The Next Task.

Rest Is Signing Out Of The Seen World And Login Into The Realm Of The Unseen That Controls The Seen.

The 7 Life Nuggets Of Rest

To Be Restful, Is To Peaceful
To Be Restful, Is To Trustful
To Be Restful, Is To Be Full Of Confidence
To Be Restful, Is To Have Assurance
To Be Restful, Is To Be Expectant
To Be Restful, Is To Be Out Of Resentful
To Be Restful, Is To Have Faith In God

The 5 Secrets Of Rest

1. Rest Always Follow Work. Therefore, Only The Hard-workers Are Entitle To Rest. Resting Before And During Work Is Laziness In Display, And It Prohibited In The School Of Progress And Success.

2. Don’t Rest Too Long If You Don’t Want To Lose Your Place. Remember Nature Avoid Vacuum. If You Are Not Resting You Are Actually Working And Vice Versa.

3. Rest Is Only Good When You Have Done All The Necessary For The Day, Week, Month And Year. Don’t Rest Without Evidence Of Your Work.

4. Don’t Rest And Think Work, Or Work And Think Rest. Work When You Need To Work, And Rest When You Need To Rest.

5. Rest Is Only Good At An Appropriate Time. Don’t Rest When You Are Suppose To Work. Remember For Everything There Is Time.

The Secret
The Capacity Of Your Work And Trust In God Will Determine The Level Of Your Rest In Life.

The Ratio Of Life: Six Days Of Work And One Day Of Rest. You Can’t Change It, Because It Is Fixed Before You Were Born, It Shall Continue When You Are No More.

Ask God
If You Think Rest Is Not Good Ask God… He Rested On The 7th Day.
If You Think Work Is Not Good Ask God… He Worked For 6 Days

God Is The One That Gives Rest To Them That Trust Him. Ps 127:3

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Counsel 101 (8)… Excess Sleep Attracts Poverty

Excess SleepingIf You Love Sleep You Must Embrace Poverty

The Goal Of Champion

If the future means anything to you, dedicating all of you to get the best of it. It is wisdom to be watchful for anything that might want to stop or won’t allow you to get to your destination.

If you spend your time sleeping, you will be poor. Keep busy and you will have plenty to eat. (Proverbs 20:13 GNB)

Sleep had gone to the school of Time and Life. She studied and understand that anybody can become what they want to be if only they can start and don’t stop working while their equals are always in bed.

The 3 Secrets Of Life Success

1. Get To Work Before Others Began
2. Work Hard While Others Are Working
3. Continue Working When Others Are Tire

Poverty is not government responsibility to eliminate but your responsibility to defend yourself from her attack.

The Secret
Excess sleep is for people that can’t see the future. People that don’t know what life own for them and people that don’t believe in themselves.

The Wise Advise
Don’t let yourself go to sleep or stop to rest in the journey of Life. Until you have what you desire, take excess sleep away from your eyelids.

How long is the lazy man going to lie in bed? When is he ever going to get up? “I’ll just take a short nap,” he says; “I’ll fold my hands and rest a while.” But while he sleeps, poverty will attack him like an armed robber. (Proverbs 6:9-11 GNB)

Remember the rich has the same time as the poor because God created both. Pro22:2

This Is my advice—Bed is not your friend but your short place of rest. Enough Rest Will Attract Enough Poverty. Stay Awake, Stay Alive, And Stay Productive.

…In The Multitude Of Counselors There Is Safety.

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

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LEADERSHIP 101

MeThe Ultimate Responsibility Of A Leader Is To Produce Another Leader. Success Without A Successor Is Absolute Failure.

Areas To Develop Leadership Skills

1. Organizational–Work Place
2. Marital- Good Relationship
3. Family— Building Good Home
4. Self— Personal Development
5. Spirituality– Recruit For Jesus Christ

You Are Not A Good Leader If Nothing Works In Your Absent.

You Are Not A Good Leader If Your Wife Can’t Represent You.

You Are Not A Good Leader If Your Children Are Wayward.

You Don’t Have The Seed Of Leadership If You Cannot Be What You Teach. Real Leadership Starts With Leading Yourself.

You Are Not A Good Leader If You Can’t Draw Souls To The Kingdom Of God Through Jesus Christ.

Good Leadership Is Simply Living Now, After And Forever.

To Your Success

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

Get Serious Life Is Serious…Vitamins of The Mind 115-TheSecret101

The Big Question Of Life

Serious

Finance Is Serious. You Have To Be Serious In Saving And Investing. Don’t Spend The Money You Don’t Have And Don’t Buy What You Can’t Afford. Building Credit Is A New Generation Of Slavery. Remember, The Borrower Is A Servant To The Lender And The Voice Of The Poor Is Not Heard. Get Serious About Your Finances.

Education Is Serious. You Have To Know, Learn And Study. You Can’t Give What You Don’t Have. The Law Of Education States That –If You Don’t Have It You Can’t Give It, If You Have It You Can’t Hide It. Building Mental Capacity And Develop Sound Mind Is The Secret Of Champions. Acquiring Adequate And Relevant Knowledge In Your Field Will Launch You Beyond Your Imagination. Anytime You Are In Challenge, Life Is Simply Ask You To Display Your Level Of Knowledge In That Area. So Your Level Of Education Will Determine Your Level Of Response. Get Serious Life Is Serious.

Building Family Is Serious. The Foundational Secret Of Family Success Is Husband Must Love And Wife Must Respect Any Order Thing Is Just Decoration. Get Serious About Your Marriage Love Your Wife, Get Serious About Your Marriage Respect Your Husband. I Know That, It Is Hard To Love A Woman That Won’t Respect, And Very Hard To Respect A Man That Won’t Love. But One More Thing That I Know Very Well Is That Excuse Is Not A Jargon In The School OF Success, The Secret Is Succeed Anyhow.

The Goodnews Is That You Shall Be Celebrated If You Succeed But You Will Be Overwhelm With Shame If Your Marriage Collapse, If You End-up Broke And Stupid For Lack Of Knowledge. In The School Of Success Nobody Listen To Stories, Because Life First Demand Your Result And Later Demand Your Testimony Not Story. That Is Why You Need To Get Serious To Learn And Know All That You Need To Know About Finance, Self Development And Marriage. Get Serious Life is Serious.

Nobody Can Escape The Question Of Life. Are You Serious?

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Understanding The Place Of Thanksgiving

ThanksIt is foolishness to be shameful of what is gainful–Bishop David Oyedepo

I know you don’t have reasons to give thanks but I will show you why you need to give thanks.

… If it had not been the lord who was on our side, when men rose up against us: (Psalms 124:1, kjv)

If you are not happy with your present situation, you are an ingrate. It is what happen that you know, what should have happened you don’t know.

“What If” Is the secret of appreciation.
What if you are dead will you be complaining about life?
What if you are still single will you be complaining about your spouse?
What if you are jobless will you be complaining of the increase in pay?
What if you are blind will you be complaining about what is going wrong around you?
What If your leg is amputated will you be complaining about the shoe that you don’t have?

This is what God told me in the year 2010. If you don’t know why you should PRAISE Me, I will not have reason to RAISE you. So I Learnt That Praising God Breeds Lifting Of Men. The goodnews is that there is a wide gap from where I was in 2010 to where I am in 2014, if you know me in person you will know what am talking about.It Is All About Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving Works Wonder.

Oh that men would praise the lord for His goodness, and for his wonderful works to the children of men! (Psalms 107:8 kjv)

God is forever right it is we that needs to fix ourselves. If you and I can think right and blind your eyes to the temporary, i am sure we will command more result. Everything has expiring date including our challenges, the future is bright for the thanksgivers.

Oh that men would praise the lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men! (Psalms 107:15 kjv)

Have you think about how much your bill will be by now if you were to be on oxygen or life-support machine for just one day, now think about 30days, and 365days, if you think is not real visit the nearby Hospitals. Life fortune are drain in no time by sickness and diseases, if you are not in that situation. Open your mouth and praise the lord for His good and His mercy endures forever.

Oh that men would praise the lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men! (Psalms 107:21 kjv)

You are complaining about your spouse while someone is praying to God to have one. You are complaining about your work, while someone is ready to do any kind of work in order to chase hunger away from his family.

Oh that men would praise the lord for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men! (Psalms 107:31 kjv)

You are complaining that you are not on top of your class. Remember, someone is still awaiting admission. You are complaining about the increase in pay, someone can’t wait to be pay the 50% of what you earn.

Thanksgiving Is Only For The Wise
Whoso is wise, and will observe these things, even they shall understand the loving kindness of the lord. (Psalms 107:43 kjv)

Song In My Heart
God You Are So Good,..
God You Are Kind…
My God You Are Wonderful…
My God You Are Excellent…

The Secret
Those that don’t think enough and can’t think through will surely become victims of life circumstances.

The Treasures Of Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving Is The Force That Unveils, Delivers And Multiply Blessing.
Thanksgiving Is Declaring God’s Perfection.
Thanksgiving Is Appreciate God Goodness
Thanksgiving Is Telling God That He Is Always On Point
Thanksgiving Is Telling God That You Trust In Him

Why Should You Give Thanks To God
You Are Not Where You Use To Be
You Are Not Where Your Enemies Wants You To Be
God Does Not Allow The Desires Of Your Enemies To Come To Past In Your Life
God Is Still Working On You
God Cannot Lie-He Will Make Good All Of His Promises On You

My Word
Thanksgiving is for thanks givers that will not lack reasons to give thanks-Rotimi Adedokun

…Be Inspired, Help Others, And Live Abundance Life

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun
@adedokunr

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My 15 Wishes For The Rest Of The Year

  1. Blog Image1I Wish Everybody Is A Reader
  2. I Wish Everybody Is A Listener
  3. I Wish Everybody Is A Learner
  4. I Wish Everybody Can Invest In Books The Way They Invest In Designers
  5. I Wish Everybody Can Invest In Prayer The Way They Invest In Watching Television
  6. I Wish Everybody Can Invest In Planning The Way They Invest In Chatting With Friends
  7. I Wish Everybody Can Spend Time With God The Way They Spend Time With Their Mobile Devices
  8. I Wish Everybody Can Think Future, The Way They Think Latest
  9. I Wish Everybody Can Think About The Word Of God, The Way They Think About Their Incomes And Investment
  10. I Wish Everybody Can Serve God The Way They Serve Their Employers
  11. I Wish Everybody Can Fear God The Way They Fear Their Boss.
  12. I Wish Everybody Wants To Look Good On The Inside The Way They Are Desperate To Look Good On The Outside
  13. I Wish Everybody Can Save Their Visions And Dreams In Their Heart The Way Save Their $ In Bank
  14. I Wish Everybody Can Set Goals To Be Financially Free The Way They Set Vacation Goals
  15. I Wish Everybody Can Be Happy All The Time, Not For The Situation Of Now But The Promises Of The Future

We Live In A World Of Untapped Resources. What You Have Seen Cannot Be Compare With What You Are Yet To See. Improvement and Positive Change Are The Major In The School Of Progress. Don’t Be Caught To Major In Minor.

I Wish My Wishes (It is A Wish To Wish) Can Be Real This Year.

Practice Reading, Listening And Learning, You Will Be On Your To The Top.

…Be Inspired, Help Others, And Live Abundance Life

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun
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The 12 Don’t Of Life. Part 1b…The 10 Secrets Of Vision

MeI started last week on the 12 don’t of life, and the first Don’t is don’t think You Can Go Far In Life Without VISION. I will continue on the first don’t of life this week. If you do not read the part 1a you can access it here http://wp.me/p2ylqq-pU. In life, every first thing really matters, so be careful and don’t neglect. Jim Rohn said, “Neglect starts out as an infection then becomes a disease.” This is what I added only those that want to die on time will allow an infection to grow to be a disease in their body. Everything needs instant action, act now. The source of all information is the foundation at which others are built, don’t neglect to click the above link and read before you go ahead.

3 forces in life determine your rating and reigning. They are what you know-Knowledge. The information that you apply-Wisdom, and the assurance of your faith before you act-Understanding. Life is deep, and wide only those that are ready to exploit it can comprehend it. Anybody that wants to be known must first know. Knowledge is fundamental in the school of success.

This week let continue on the subject of vision. The new year is not really new it is just a new day that signifies the first day of another 365 days of opportunity giving to you by God to re-fire and instead of retire and is on fire instead of getting tire. Vision is the force that creates the change within and around you. To get the best out of this year, you must be pregnant with your vision. Vision is the only assurance of the future; Vision is the promise of tomorrow, and vision gives peace and guarantees a great destiny.

The 7 Benefits Of Vision

1. Vision brings a clear picture

2. Vision saves energy

3. Vision channels your strength-invest energy wisely

4. Vision promises and delivers peace in the middle of the storm

5. Vision creates and establishes a name

6. Vision singles out and separates from the crowd.

7. Vision create and design your own place in destiny.

The 3 Responsibilities In The School Of Vision
8. Pictures It
Pictures are the force behind replication. You shall have whatsoever you can see.

9. Speaks it
Words are unstoppable forces things into existence. You shall have whatsoever you say.

10. Work it
Work is a force that creates anything that you are ready to work. Vision is not for the lazy. Work works. You shall have whatsoever you work.

Life Secrets 101

Pictures are forces that flash the reality of the future. Works are forces that can create whatsoever you can see; works are forces that have the capability to create whatsoever that you can see. Life is all about the picture it, speak it and work it.

The price for achievement is sweat. The good thing about sweat is that it’s always sweet. Whatsoever you sweat to achieve will be undoubtedly sweet to eat.

Till you hear from me again remember the first don’t of life. Don’t Think You Can Go Far In Life Without VISION.

…Be Inspired, Help Others, And Live Abundance Life

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun
@adedokunr

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Start On Time Don’t Be Late…Vitamins of The Mind 114-TheSecret101

Time To StartAge Is The Accumulation Of Time. It Cut Down The Energy On Our Lives Performance. So, Use Your Best Time To Do The Best Thing That Will Produce The Best For Your Life. Start On Time Don’t Be Late

The Best Time To Be Ready For Tomorrow Is Neither Yesterday Nor Today. You Are Getting Late By Yesterday You Are Very Late Today. The Best Time To Be Ready For Tomorrow Is Two Days Ago.

Whatever You Don’t Do On Time Will Jeopardize Your Right To Be The Champion In Life. Train And Prepare On Time, Get To Work Early, Start Your Day On Time. Time Work For Life, If You Want The Best Of Life Work With Time.

Don’t Be Late, Lateness Steals The Joy Of Life, It Reduces Your Chance For Greatness And Places You At The Second Position. Get There Early Get Your Result Faster.

Don’t Be Late Life Is In Hurry To Let Go For Whosoever That Care. One Extra Minutes Can Create The Gap That You Can’t Bridge For The Rest Of Your Life. It’s Better To Be Waiting For Life, Than Life Waiting For You.

Time Is The Secret To Life Success. Take Charge Of Your Life By Containing Your Time. Be There On Time, You Will Get Result So Fast. In The School Of Life A Wasted Time Is A Wasted Life.

The Distant To Your Destination Is A Product Of Your Respect For Time. Time Is Extremely Quiet But Very Audible At The Same Time. Time Speaks

Lateness Is One Of The Strategies Use By The Enemy To Steal What Belongs To You. If You Have Miss Anything Up To Date, You Can Trace It To Your Lack Of Respect For Time.

Don’t Be Behind Schedule Of Life. Be There On Time, Get There Utilize The Time. The Only Time You Have Is The One You Have Now. Remember, The Law Of Use What You Don’t Use You Lose.

You Can Lose Every Thing, Don’t Let it Be Your Time. You Can Lose Money But Don’t Lose Time. You Can Lose Resources But Don’t Lose Time. You Can Lose Your Energy But Don’t Lose Time. Time Is The Greatest Value In The Whole Universe. Start Your Life On Time Don’t Be Late

…Be Inspired, Help Others, And Live Abundance Life

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun
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LEADERSHIP 101

MeThe Greatest Tragedy In Life Is To Follow An Insecure Leader. Insecurity Is A Product Of Lack Of Adequate Knowledge.

Good Leadership Should Be The Following:

1. Self Deprivation: You Don’t Response Like Your Followers. You Must Bear The Pain Before You Can Take The Gain
2. Self Development: People Don’t Follow The Person That Don’t Know What They Need To Know. Every Leader Must Constantly Learn.
3. Self Discipline: If You Want To Keep Your Position, There Are things You Need To Do Good On consistently.

To Your Success

The Secret Man
Rotimi Adedokun

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